2010年5月3日 星期一

羔羊的說服力~~~有智慧

  一個牧場主養了許多羊。他的鄰居是個獵戶,院子裡養了一群兇猛的獵狗。                          
                                                                                               
  這些獵狗經常跳過柵欄,襲擊牧場裡頭的羊羔。                                                  
                                                                                               
  牧場主幾次請獵戶把狗關好,但獵戶不以為然,口頭上答應,可沒過幾天,他家的獵狗又跳進牧場橫衝直闖,咬傷了好幾隻小羊。                                                    
                                                                                               
  忍無可忍的牧場主找鎮上的法官評理。                                                          
                                                                                               
  聽了他的控訴,明理的法官說:「我可以處罰那個獵戶,也可以發佈法令讓他把狗鎖起來。但這樣一來你就失去了一個朋友,多了一個敵人。你是願意和敵人作鄰居呢?                  
  還是和朋友作鄰居?」                                                                        
                                                                                               
  「當然是和朋友作鄰居。」牧場主說。                                                          
                                                                                               
  「那好,我給你出個主意,按我說的去做。不但可以保證你的羊群不再受騷擾,還會為你贏得一個友好的鄰居。」法官如此這般交代一番。牧場主連連稱是。                            
                                                                                               
  一到家,牧場主就按法官說的挑選了3隻最可愛的小羊羔,送給獵戶的3個兒子。                      
                                                                                               
  看到潔白溫順的小羊,孩子們如獲至寶,每天放學都要在院子裡與小羊羔玩耍嬉戲。                  
                                                                                               
  因為怕獵狗傷害到兒子們的小羊,獵戶做了個大鐵籠,把狗結結實實的鎖了起來。                    
                                                                                               
  從此,牧場主的羊群再也沒有受到騷擾。                                                        
                                                                                               
  為了答謝牧場主的好意,獵戶開始送各種野味給他,牧場主也不時用羊肉和奶酪回贈獵戶。漸漸地兩人成了好朋友。                                                                
                                                                                               
  要說服一個人,最好的辦法是為他著想,讓他也能從中受益。                                      
                                                                                               
  感想  : 看完今天的故事讓我知道了一件事「要說服一個人,最好的辦法是為他著想,讓他也能從中受益」,希望從看完此篇故事後,我們能從知道這件事而變成身體力行學會這句話,因為很多的名言都是簡單而易懂,但要運用在生活中的做人處事上卻還是需要修練的,畢竟當自己若倒楣碰到這樣的一個鄰居時,氣憤的心往往蒙蔽了智慧,而使人選擇了彼此傷害惡鬥的方式解決問題。

 

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